The Lost Skill of Relaxation: Why Letting Go Feels So Hard—and Why It Matters More Than Ever
Relaxation used to be a natural state. It happened in the pauses between tasks, in long evenings, in moments when time wasn’t measured down to the minute. Today, relaxation has become something we schedule, optimize, and often feel guilty about. We sit still, yet our minds remain clenched. We rest, but we do not relax.
This is not because humans forgot how to relax—it’s because modern life quietly trained us not to.
To understand relaxation is to understand tension. Most tension is not muscular. It is psychological. It is the constant low-level grip we keep on ourselves: monitoring performance, tracking progress, anticipating the next demand, judging whether rest is deserved. Even when nothing is happening, the mind stays on alert, scanning for what should happen next.
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