For much of the past two decades, modern dating has been fueled by a search for sparks: the electric chemistry, the thrill of unpredictability, the chase. Television, movies, and even dating apps glorified the “excitement factor,” equating passion with love. But as countless people discovered, chasing excitement often came at the cost of emotional safety—the sense of stability, trust, and security that truly sustains relationships. Today, a cultural shift is underway. Increasingly, singles and ...